True storiesHearing from women who have survived violence and abuse is an inspiration. Knowing you are not alone can be a real help. These are the stories of a few of the women who have contacted Refuge. All their names and identifying details have been changed. If you would like to share your story, please email catherine_cullen@refuge.org.uk. 
| Janet's story"I was frightened and shocked but he was always so sorry for what he had done and promised never to hurt me again." Read Janet's Story
|  |  | Yvonne's story"I went to a cousin he didn't even know about and changed my mobile number but I knew he'd find me eventually." Read Yvonne's Story |  | Marie's story"With all the help and support I've received I've been able to start to take control of my life and I am a lot more confident."
Read Marie's story
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|  | Michelle's story"I talked myself into believing it wasn't a serious problem and no relationship was perfect."
Read Michelle's story |  | Christine's story"By the time I was finally able to leave, I had been with Daniel for 30 years. It was a very long and painful journey but I now know that there is nowhere for me to go but up and I am looking to the future." Read Christine's story
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|  | Simone, Lisa and Nina"I had been living with my partner for about a year when he began to change." Read Simone, Lisa and Nina's story
|  | Angela's story"I never took money out of a cashpoint without telling him first. Not once in the fifteen years we were together."
Read Angela's story
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|  | Stacey's story"I never imagined he'd rape me. Twice. And then tell me he'd done nothing wrong." Read Stacey's story |
In 90% of domestic violence incidents that take place in family households children are in the same or next door room. They are the silent witnesses. The effect on them can be devastating. Here is what a few of them have to say. |
